I don't know the answer to that. It pains me that I can't help my friend understand our Heavenly Father more but I can't imagine ever knowing that answer. God knows - that's reason enough for me.
Adversity need not interrupt your communion with Me. When things go "wrong," you tend to react as if you're being punished. Instead of this negative response, try to view difficulties as blessings in disguise.
You know what? I don't think I should lead with that when talking with my friend. Sure it is a great outlook to have when things are going well - but not something you want to hear when you find out terrible, tragic, heart breaking news. We don't know what blessings will come out of tragedy. The only thing I find hope and rest in is the fact that God knows what He's doing. He's bigger than us. And I love Him for that.
Sorry for the downer blog post! Need some cheering up or inspiration of the fact that God is GREAT? Check out these photos and make sure to read the synopsis before! :)
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Katie!! Great post & this is a hard question for anybody to understand, let alone someone who wonders at God's very existence. You've done a great job at summarizing how you answer this question for yourself, but are smart enough to understand that this answer won't help sort out your friend's feelings.
ReplyDeleteI loved Rochelle & Bobby's engagement photos...then noticed a link at the bottom of the comments section - their wedding photos are posted! So cute, such fun ideas for a wedding where children were what brought them together.
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